(May 16, 2015 at 9:14 pm)Saxmoof Wrote: There does seem to be something about masculinity that makes people personally offended somehow by other peoples lack of it, in a way that i'm not sure exists between straight women and lesbians, i don't think it's entirely down to repressed gay urges
It is something funny going on, whatever it is. I am relatively manly myself, and I don't have a problem with gay men. I suspect one of my neighbors of being gay, and I don't give a rat's ass whether he is or isn't. He is a fine neighbor. That is what matters to me, not what his sexual preferences are.
(My wife says he is definitely gay, and I suppose I should just accept what she says, as I have exceptionally poor gaydar. But it just does not matter enough to me to come to any conclusion about his sexuality.)
"A wise man ... proportions his belief to the evidence."
— David Hume, An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, Section X, Part I.