My grandmother was 93 when she passed, and like yours her cognitive faculties were acute until the end. I mention this so that you know I have some experience with what I am about to say.
I never obsessed over my grandmother's future and inevitable demise, but as she got older it wasn't uncommon to consider. I'll assume you had similar thoughts. Now ask yourself, are you considering all the times you thought about her dying and she didn't in your evaluation?
I never obsessed over my grandmother's future and inevitable demise, but as she got older it wasn't uncommon to consider. I'll assume you had similar thoughts. Now ask yourself, are you considering all the times you thought about her dying and she didn't in your evaluation?