RE: Are Married Men "Husbands?" How About a New Term for a New Relationship?
June 28, 2015 at 10:08 pm
I think the issue would be different in gay relationships, because there isn't the gender power dynamics there. "Husband" to me wouldn't have the same connotations of me being owned that a woman like the OP might have.
I guess "spouse" or "partner" are decent alternatives, but I could see those making people assume you were a lesbian as they are gender neutral.
I guess "spouse" or "partner" are decent alternatives, but I could see those making people assume you were a lesbian as they are gender neutral.
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