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[Aristocatt]

Hi

Ex catholic hi5

*hi5s*

Thanks man, I just read through your story in the conversion section.  I never had a traumatic experience like you did, but I fully understand how people can get caught into that trap.  A lot of my actions are still likely governed by my early introduction into Christianity, so in some sense, I might still be caught in the trap.  I think the one I have noticed most, is my take on when it's appropriate to let down my guard and allow someone else to explore my sexuality.  I hold that sex is generally a good thing and that having a liberal attitude towards it is a good thing.  However, personally, I have to get to know someone fairly well before I want to sleep with them.  I have had more than one uneventful one night stand and a few moments of irrational guilt for me to come to this realization.

It could always be a personality quirk, but the guilt thing hits on other issues too, even though my own moral code would tell me that I did nothing wrong.