What LGBT should/shouldn't do

[Metis]

I feel awkward in gym changing rooms the way these straight guys just casually walk around with their peens out... I don't know where to look, and I feel uncomfortable because I know these are guys who are so comfortable in their sexuality until a "queer" walks into the room. At any rate I wouldn't openly stare at anyone even if it wasn't awkward for me, not because I give a fuck about if the guy is gay or straight but just because boundaries. I have this one good Judy who I love, but he is so shameless about staring at the gym and he is asking to get slapped tbh.

I don't think this is what you are talking about, but one thing the girls do that consistently pisses me off is this narcissistic "straight-acting, masc4masc, no blacks, no Asians, no fems" on dating websites. When challenged on this they'll start with "oh but it's just a preference". Yeah that's fine, have your little preferences, but will it kill you not to be so blunt and exclusionary about it? Seriously, just stop that shit, it's not cute. "Straight acting" they say, as they put a dick in their mouth, lol...

Uugh, fuck I can't stand those types either. I actually don't use Grindr, hell I've never had a one night stand or a hook up but I see it fairly frequently with who I have as my friends on my social media. It makes me wonder quite often why exactly we are friends Still, whatever gets their motor going.

As for the changing rooms...I'm not actually uncomfortable myself, if there's another guy in there eying me up which previously there has been before it doesn't bother me, if anything I'm flattered but I have seen other men squirm under the same gaze. I really don't want to do that to them myself, or them to even think I might be doing it to them. It's not very likely I would, I'm incredibly picky but even still...Perhaps I'm just paranoid

"One Catholic girl asked because of the rise of same sex marriage was it a sin to be alone with another woman now (Catholics have a mostly unfollowed rule that men and women who are unrelated by blood or marriage cannott be in a room alone together, because people might think they're having sex). "

What about any rules against priests being alone with children? I don't think catholics have any room to judge the rest of us before they deal with that issue.


As for trans, I do believe you should wait until your body parts are changed before changing bathrooms. It's hard to tell who is and isn't gay, so probably the best thing to do is just use stalls. if you catch anyone trying to peek at you over a stall, report them.

Priests, Nuns and Consecrated Virgins don't have to follow this rule, because they've vowed on pain of hell to never have sex they're generally seen to be above such risk so they can mingle with the opposite sex freely (although historically with the Nuns and Virgins this wasn't always the case).

The stalls are a good point.

What gays should do: everything everyone else does.
What gays shouldn't do: everything everyone else doesn't do.

People shouldn't have to change their behavior because of their sexual preference. Period.

People who take offense at a gay man in a men's locker room can fuck off. He has every right to be there. Same goes when the genders are reversed.

Ah, if only everyone was as open minded as that

I know they shouldn't have to Tiberius, but is it polite for them to consider it? A guy doesn't have to hold a door open for women but many of them still do, it's simply good manners. I'm just thinking if there should be some lines along the same way. Using the example of guys touching I've seen on another thread is actually a good example, some language like "watch my back" is pretty innocent but said by a gay guy could quite easily be read the wrong way, sure he can still say it but is it wiser to choose different words?

I sometimes find myself doing so, Increasingly I bite my tongue and refrain from saying things like "yer can shove that up yer arse" that others say freely. Not because I can't say them, but just because I am aware it could be taken as meaning something rather different and I'd rather avoid being misunderstood.