It's good that you realized and admit your errors, Aleia.
I think this kind of problem could be avoided if all of us take things less personally or, at least, not hold onto negative comments for too long. Your mistake was that, even though I didn't see you call any names to Shell, you were saying that she was a very mean person, or a bully, and stuff like that. I've seen this and I know where those threads are. But, I'll forget about that because you have admitted that and that's very good (although I think you should also apologize to Shell if you haven't done that, but you don't have to). At the same time, I think that Shell is also at fault for saying some inflammatory things to you, but she had a good reason to be angry. But, still, I think that both of you should simply forgive each other and move on.
That being said, please don't take anything that I said in this post as an insult either. I honestly like both of you. I just wanted to state my opinion on this matter because it's something serious. I don't want to see the two of you continue verbally fighting each other this way and say the same things over and over again. This whole thing started looking like Tiberius vs. reverendjeremiah.
I think this kind of problem could be avoided if all of us take things less personally or, at least, not hold onto negative comments for too long. Your mistake was that, even though I didn't see you call any names to Shell, you were saying that she was a very mean person, or a bully, and stuff like that. I've seen this and I know where those threads are. But, I'll forget about that because you have admitted that and that's very good (although I think you should also apologize to Shell if you haven't done that, but you don't have to). At the same time, I think that Shell is also at fault for saying some inflammatory things to you, but she had a good reason to be angry. But, still, I think that both of you should simply forgive each other and move on.
That being said, please don't take anything that I said in this post as an insult either. I honestly like both of you. I just wanted to state my opinion on this matter because it's something serious. I don't want to see the two of you continue verbally fighting each other this way and say the same things over and over again. This whole thing started looking like Tiberius vs. reverendjeremiah.
