(April 3, 2012 at 2:19 pm)fr0d0 Wrote: Shell should have been open with alei as soon as alei became involved as that couldn't have gone any other way. To then publicly insult alei with private information was, in my mind, unforgivable.
I was not allowed to be open with alei. We were not allowed to engage forum members in private with our socks or reveal the joke. Given Alei's propensity for talking shit about me in PMs, I doubt it would have remained secret for long after telling her.
As for whether you find it forgivable or not, I am sure you know me well enough to know that your forgiveness does not concern me. I do not dislike you. I simply do not know you personally enough to give a shit whether you think it was a good idea. Given the nature of that "private" communication and that it was essentially sent to me, I don't see the problem. She insulted me in a PM. I was not going to post it. She lied and said that she had never insulted me and that she thought our issues were squashed, so I posted it. She insulted herself and me. I merely revealed it.
