(April 3, 2012 at 2:56 pm)fr0d0 Wrote: Bollocks.
You could have done the decent thing.
You could have got another staff member to vet it as you had personal attachment.
I could have just done what she did and sent a bunch of PMs to people pissing and moaning about her. I could have done any number of things. You are not the arbiter of decency. You have long been considered a poe whose very posts are contradictory. I'm not taking a damn ethics lesson from you.
Quote:It was fucking not sent to you.
Indeed it was. Whether she knew it or not is irrelevant. Furthermore, it is well known in this community that our admins can read PMs. While they tend not to and do not post them, her message can hardly be considered intellectual property or any such nonsense.
Quote:It's generally accepted etiquette. You don't have to conform to that, but you should expect outrage from the majority of nitizens who do.
Outrage? How very overblown. The fucking PM was insulting in and of itself. She clearly seeks to hide the things that she said behind feigned innocence. She screwed her own intent by sending something like that to a member who she had never even spoken to!
Quote:Her insults were not to you, but to another. She didn't know that was you. You betrayed her confidence in posting her private conversation.
Betrayed her confidence? What confidence? She has been calling me all manner of names and having private conversations with numerous members about how horrible I am (over lies about things I never said) for months now. She even posts snide asides in nearly every thread both of us are in. What do I owe her? Fucking nothing.