everyone (else) seems to be hating on atheists

[Whateverist]

for me, it's not only that it paints a negative view, it's that i'm new to being around other atheists at all, so i'm learning what terms mean and how people communicate their lack of beliefs as well as how theists came to believe what they believe. it's a learning deal for me. once the general convo degrades to solely name-calling, there will be nothing more of value to me and i'll be gone. never was much of a groupie anyway, i do my own thing.

I like that. You seem real and I'm not much of a groupie either. I trust people who find their own way. Take your time.