My misogyny

[Heir Apparent]

Hmmm, well the first thing that jumps out at me is your mother who seems to think she can just barge in on you whenever she feels like it, or at least that's how I perceive it.

It sounds to me like she is still trying to have a hand in all your doings, even after you've left, which doesn't sound healthy. Have you simply tried telling her that you're just fine on your own and that you don't need her help? Politely, of course.

I should think being on your own would entitle you to be yourself after all.