(June 29, 2014 at 8:11 pm)blackout94 Wrote: Well I'm assuming you are a female or a gay male, my advice, even though my relationship has only been lasting for 2 years (not a lot of time, but I hope a lot more still comes) is to not give a fuck about it. If you truly love each other, something like personal beliefs or lack of beliefs should have little relevance. My girlfriend has always been a christian (more likely a deist with christian influences) and she is pretty open minded about it, we never had a problem with it because we both love ourselves. If you love your boyfriend that shouldn't be a problem at all. But again this is just my bet. What are your fears on the future (if I can ask) ?
Quote:Yes i am a female and im afriad that he will get to a point that his religion becomes his first priority and he sacrifices his life to follow god (kind of like how Abraham was willing to kill his only child for god) I know he loves me but I dont have a rule book on how to live my life but he does. Although I think he is similar to how your wife is about religion he is sort of a deist with some christian ways...he identifies with Christianity but doesnt believe have the things he sees in the bibleWell my girlfriend is pretty open minded and she doesn't think about god or Christianity on a daily basis, in other words if she didn't believe the universe would be work and be exactly the same for her. I guess if you love each other the right call is to stick together. Sometimes people are indoctrinated since birth to believe, others went trough bad experiences and need something too hold on. My girlfriend was starved as a baby and was adopted, maybe the belief in god was something to help her go trough bad moments, it's something I understand. I respect her views and she respects mine, I understand her and she understands me, she even supports gay marriage and admits a lot of the bible is not viable/genuine/was forged/changed.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you