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To spank or not to spank?
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RE: To spank or not to spank?
What the heck is hot sauce punishment/? Wait, no, dint tell me.

I don't spank or hit in any way. All of that kind of punishment is damaging, and it fails at stopping the behavior you want stopped too. I did not read the whole thread, but there are many studies showing positive reinforcement and other styles work better than negative reinforcement.

We reward for good behavior, and withdraw from bad (send to room, remove things like screen time) as punishment.

I just can't see violence to a child being a good answer.
“Eternity is a terrible thought. I mean, where's it going to end?” 
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To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 1:35 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 1:50 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 1:51 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Crossless1 - September 20, 2015 at 1:56 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Athene - September 20, 2015 at 1:58 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by mediocrates - September 20, 2015 at 1:59 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 2:03 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Athene - September 20, 2015 at 2:09 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by I_am_not_mafia - September 20, 2015 at 7:29 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Pyrrho - September 20, 2015 at 1:44 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:10 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 2:14 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 2:22 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Minimalist - September 20, 2015 at 2:23 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by mediocrates - September 20, 2015 at 2:30 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Esquilax - September 20, 2015 at 2:49 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 2:54 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 3:13 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 3:19 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 3:25 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 3:35 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:13 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Lemonvariable72 - September 20, 2015 at 3:31 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 3:35 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 3:44 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 4:02 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 6:33 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Lemonvariable72 - September 20, 2015 at 3:47 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 9:31 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Lemonvariable72 - September 21, 2015 at 12:17 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 3:40 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 3:47 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Little lunch - September 20, 2015 at 7:27 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 7:28 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 7:52 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:30 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 7:58 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by downbeatplumb - September 20, 2015 at 8:04 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 8:03 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 8:07 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 9:33 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 9:45 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 20, 2015 at 9:56 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by vorlon13 - September 20, 2015 at 10:01 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 10:09 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 10:14 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:35 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 10:14 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 20, 2015 at 10:16 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 2:43 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 10:40 am
To spank or not to spank? - by KUSA - September 20, 2015 at 10:48 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 10:48 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 10:56 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 10:50 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 20, 2015 at 11:26 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 11:28 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Esquilax - September 20, 2015 at 11:33 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Minimalist - September 20, 2015 at 10:54 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by vorlon13 - September 20, 2015 at 10:58 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 10:59 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Pyrrho - September 20, 2015 at 2:00 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Aroura - September 20, 2015 at 11:24 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 11:28 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Regina - September 20, 2015 at 11:36 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 11:53 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Regina - September 20, 2015 at 11:59 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 12:30 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by brewer - September 20, 2015 at 12:41 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 12:46 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by brewer - September 20, 2015 at 1:42 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 2:41 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by drfuzzy - September 20, 2015 at 3:44 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 4:43 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 12:52 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 1:12 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 1:24 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 2:36 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by drfuzzy - September 20, 2015 at 1:29 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by brewer - September 20, 2015 at 12:38 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Catholic_Lady - September 20, 2015 at 12:43 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 1:04 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Catholic_Lady - September 20, 2015 at 1:16 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Catholic_Lady - September 20, 2015 at 1:18 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Chad32 - September 20, 2015 at 1:16 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by drfuzzy - September 20, 2015 at 1:23 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 3:01 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 1:24 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Catholic_Lady - September 20, 2015 at 1:40 pm
To spank or not to spank? - by KUSA - September 20, 2015 at 1:27 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Longhorn - September 20, 2015 at 1:31 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by rexbeccarox - September 20, 2015 at 1:36 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 1:48 pm
To spank or not to spank? - by KUSA - September 20, 2015 at 1:50 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Catholic_Lady - September 20, 2015 at 2:27 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 1:51 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by brewer - September 20, 2015 at 3:39 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 2:28 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 2:47 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 20, 2015 at 2:53 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 2:57 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 20, 2015 at 3:16 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 3:04 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 5:10 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 3:38 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Jenny A - September 20, 2015 at 4:14 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 4:51 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Aroura - September 20, 2015 at 5:07 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 4:59 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Pyrrho - September 20, 2015 at 5:12 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 5:12 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 5:22 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 5:32 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 5:35 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 9:04 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 9:07 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 9:11 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 9:49 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Bob Kelso - September 20, 2015 at 9:51 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 9:52 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 9:53 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 10:09 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:20 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Pyrrho - September 20, 2015 at 10:39 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 20, 2015 at 10:43 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Pyrrho - September 20, 2015 at 11:15 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by MTL - September 21, 2015 at 12:13 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by TubbyTubby - September 20, 2015 at 5:53 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 6:44 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Ravenshire - September 20, 2015 at 7:07 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 20, 2015 at 7:12 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 8:34 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 8:56 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Jenny A - September 20, 2015 at 9:08 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 9:13 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Jackalope - September 20, 2015 at 8:58 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 9:01 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Whateverist - September 20, 2015 at 9:17 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 9:38 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 9:47 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Bob Kelso - September 20, 2015 at 9:48 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 9:56 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 9:58 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 10:01 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 10:05 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 20, 2015 at 10:15 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Valkyrie - September 20, 2015 at 10:44 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Jackalope - September 20, 2015 at 10:47 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Valkyrie - September 20, 2015 at 10:50 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by ignoramus - September 20, 2015 at 11:18 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 11:21 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Jenny A - September 20, 2015 at 11:27 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 11:32 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 11:34 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 11:40 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 20, 2015 at 11:43 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by BrokenQuill92 - September 20, 2015 at 11:20 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Losty - September 21, 2015 at 12:54 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Whateverist - September 20, 2015 at 11:28 pm
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by The Grand Nudger - September 21, 2015 at 12:45 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by Reforged - September 21, 2015 at 2:33 am
RE: To spank or not to spank? - by robvalue - September 21, 2015 at 2:46 am

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