RE: The Ramble from my Intro
September 23, 2020 at 3:00 am
(This post was last modified: September 23, 2020 at 3:06 am by Belacqua.)
You're going through something really difficult. I hope it can work out with love in the long run, whatever the conclusion is.
This is a kind of unknown for us, which makes any advice we give you fairly random. We don't know how your wife might react. Obviously she must have many good qualities, or you wouldn't have married her in the first place.
It's clear that you care for your kids very much. They are too young to understand religious differences, but old enough to be aware if mommy and daddy hate each other. I hope your wife can at least stay calm about things, in order to avoid upsetting them.
You can't control what she does, but you can control your own actions. I would say that if you ever get to the point of telling your wife to go fuck herself, that's a sign you've failed. I would hate to ever be that bitter.
Good luck to you.
(September 22, 2020 at 9:25 am)inferno_ink Wrote: I hope my wife wouldn’t be that vindictive, I don’t see her being that way. And I realize that most of this doom and gloom could be stemming from my feeling guilty about hiding my beliefs for several years.
This is a kind of unknown for us, which makes any advice we give you fairly random. We don't know how your wife might react. Obviously she must have many good qualities, or you wouldn't have married her in the first place.
It's clear that you care for your kids very much. They are too young to understand religious differences, but old enough to be aware if mommy and daddy hate each other. I hope your wife can at least stay calm about things, in order to avoid upsetting them.
You can't control what she does, but you can control your own actions. I would say that if you ever get to the point of telling your wife to go fuck herself, that's a sign you've failed. I would hate to ever be that bitter.
Good luck to you.
