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How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 11:54 am
I'll admit to seeing a few mopes that I'm sure glad aren't on my team, but appearanceism is frowned upon, still, some of those mopes are probably thrilled that I'm not.
In other words, Idunno.
If I found you so totally lacking in sex appeal as to put me off the idea of ever boinking any other man again, would you want to know ??
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 11:56 am
I have to admit that I was rather put aback when one of my gay friends told me to be not attracted. I was hurt, even though I didn't fancy him the least bit. But you want to come over as attractive, don't you?
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 11:58 am
I don't want to be seen as sexually alluring to goats or sharks . . .
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:00 pm
I'm pretty used to it, tbh. I am on crutches for spina bifida, which often means if I so much as sit down in a seat at, say, the airport gate, I'll clear the row of 15 seats adjacent to mine.
Add to that I'm obese, which is a turn on for some people, apparently. But normally, it draws resentment from people.
So, yeah, I probably wouldn't bother responding. I wouldn't even know what to say.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:01 pm
This is going to sound awfully big-headed, but pretty much every gay friend I have has said I'm cute.
I realise I'm not everyone's type though. If a gay guy told me I was that repulsive, I really wouldn't mind to be honest.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:04 pm
I'm so used to being found repulsive to begin with, that I can't imagine repulsing a gay person would have all that great an impact.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:04 pm
About the same way I react to women who find me repulsive. Ignore them.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:11 pm
My pastor tells me to stay away from gay people, because the demons possessing him will jump into my body and turn me away from jewsus, and take my soul to hell!
Sorry, I couldn't give you an answer.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:16 pm
(This post was last modified: September 27, 2015 at 12:16 pm by paulpablo.)
I wouldn't really care what a gay man said about my looks. People have different likes and dislikes when it comes to attraction.
But then again I am pretty confident with my looks, not that I think I'm the best looking person but I know from evidence that I'm good looking enough to attract females who I likewise find attractive.
I don't really care too much if a woman finds me attractive or not.
1st reason is that a lot of girls find Justin Bieber attractive, but plenty of women don't, you can't please everyone.
2nd reason is that when people talk about what they find attractive it's not always that reliable. I've met girls who can't even decide if they like other girls or not, I just think what people say and what people do is sometimes totally different.
Weird that this question is being asked today, I just left work where my friend was telling me the gay guy in work was checking me out, I didn't like that thought.
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RE: How would you react to a gay person who found you TOTALLY repulsive ?
September 27, 2015 at 12:22 pm
It would be an ego blow. I don't care whether your like dangles up top or down below, I would prefer you found me attractive.
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