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What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm
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Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
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RE: What's up
December 21, 2016 at 3:43 pm
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Are you just angry/disappointed (grief coming out) or do you really believe there was an idiot in the op room?
Edit: You have my sympathies!
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RE: What's up
December 21, 2016 at 3:48 pm
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(December 21, 2016 at 3:43 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: Are you just angry/disappointed (grief coming out) or do you really believe there was an idiot in the op room?
Edit: You have my sympathies!
There is evidence to suggest malpractice
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 6:03 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
I am very very sorry to hear this, Orochi. 
What an absolutely devastating thing to have to deal with, and can't imagine how you both must be feeling. I hold 0 judgement against you for the argument. Please don't be embarrassed. I think any of us would have done that, it is very big of you to have apologized.
If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 6:10 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 6:03 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
I am very very sorry to hear this, Orochi.
What an absolutely devastating thing to have to deal with, and can't imagine how you both must be feeling. I hold 0 judgement against you for the argument. Please don't be embarrassed. I think any of us would have done that, it is very big of you to have apologized.
If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.
Thank you
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 6:33 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
That sucks bad. Sorry to see this.
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 6:39 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 6:33 pm)Fireball Wrote: (December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
That sucks bad. Sorry to see this.
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 8:36 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
You know, Oro, sometimes people just get pissed off. Don't beat yourself up over it. It sounds as if you have cause.
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 8:53 pm
(December 21, 2016 at 8:36 pm)Minimalist Wrote: (December 21, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Orochi Wrote: Earlier today I launched into a childish out burst over a minor point to which I am profoundly embarrassed I admit I can be course even harsh but that was inexcusable
As I have said in a previous post i'm a polyamory in my case I have two partners one of them is wheelchair bound after a terrible accident that damaged her legs beyond use. Last Sunday she went in for one of many surgeries to try and fix the problem and the doctors were hopeful the problem could be fixed. But it failed and she may in fact be the worst for it because some idiot may have botched the surgery it's likely she will never walk again.She most certainly will never be able to go back to her work so she's depressed i'm depressed and stuff at work only makes the whole thing worst
But what really gets to me in can solve the problems of dozens of total strangers but can't solve the one of the woman I love
You know, Oro, sometimes people just get pissed off. Don't beat yourself up over it. It sounds as if you have cause.
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RE: What's Wrong
December 21, 2016 at 8:58 pm
I get pissed off all the time.
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