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[Faith No More]

That's why they say never meet your heroes.

[Erinome]

So, I like this picture of me. My friend took it, and I don't care what she says, she fucked with my eyes to make them brighter or something. (She claims they were just sparkling in the sun)...

Anyway, my guy friend says he hates it and I look like a "cougar".

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Can a 28 year old woman even be a cougar? If so, who thinks I look like one in this pic? I want to use it as my facebook profile pic, but now I am self-conscious about it.

[thesummerqueen]

I'm not sure what about it makes you a cougar. If you like it, fuck what other people think.

[Erinome]

I usually do go with the "fuck what they think" option, but for some reason, it really bothered me. I think it's an almost 30 thing? I dunno, but I am not used to feeling insecure like this! LOL

Fuck!

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Maybe I care about the person who said it.

Fuck Fuck Fuck!

[thesummerqueen]

My crappy opinion is that it looks like a nice photo that was edited a bit. Use it - because not a single thing about the composition, color, or editing says "cougar".

[Erinome]

Thanks! I do like a younger guy now and then. LOL For sport, of course. Afterwards they needs to shut up.

[houseofcantor]

Somebody got ahold of it. Sure looks tampered with from here. Facebook is a freaking jungle; if it's bugging you now, you don't want them wolverines on it.

You look fine; it's just if you got some clowns in your circle, they're likely to jump on the "fakery." I might be able to chill it out for you quick-like (assuming my dang tablet wants to work. )

[Erinome]

good point. haha!

[Heather]

I think it's a beautiful picture!!! And yes, your eyes were photoshopped or edited in some way. But, I don't get how you look like a cougar in it.... not sure a person "looks" like a cougar. It's more of an action than a visual description... i.e... "damn all these cougars are in here chasing after the 20 year old dudes" with the cougars being over 40. (Ok, i say over 40 as I am 35 but I guess it's really any chic over 30ish that hits on much younger dudes).

[thesummerqueen]

Not true, you can tell what they look like - Rich saw one at the Ruth's Chris bar Friday night: she was wearing a leopard print skirt.