Did I done a homophobia?

[Duty]

Got completely plastered (drunk) on Thursday and was drinking (yet more beer) on a park bench with a local character I have been drinking with from time to time over the past few years. He's in his mid 50s and, for some reason, decided to tell me he's "bisexual." I then asked: "do you fancy me then?" and he replied "you're allright" with an upward inflection at the end, thus implying he meant "you're fairly attractive." I felt uncomfortable after that and went home shortly afterwards. 

Did I done a homophobia? Or perhaps a drunken   or   or maybe understandable and standard? 

[Silver]

You did nothing wrong. Unless you're leaving out certain details of the encounter.

[Duty]

That's honestly all I can remember of it and reckon if there were other salient details I'd recall them...I could be wrong on that count of course.

[Silver]

You done did a human thing, nothing more.

[Duty]

This is good news, rested at my mind there is. Cheers 11 :glugluglug....l8r:

[Angrboda]

“You’re saying there’s never been a case where you drank so much that you didn’t remember what happened the night before or part of what happened?”

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

Based on the telling of it, there’s nothing homophobic in that story. Ever had a woman fancy you but you didn’t fancy her and so made a quick exit? Same thing.

Boru

[Duty]

“You’re saying there’s never been a case where you drank so much that you didn’t remember what happened the night before or part of what happened?”

I might have got out of bed still drunk out of my tiny wee gourd and berated the recycling truck staff for not working fast enough....search me, can't remember...

[HappySkeptic]

Got completely plastered (drunk) on Thursday and was drinking (yet more beer) on a park bench with a local character I have been drinking with from time to time over the past few years. He's in his mid 50s and, for some reason, decided to tell me he's "bisexual." I then asked: "do you fancy me then?" and he replied "you're allright" with an upward inflection at the end, thus implying he meant "you're fairly attractive." I felt uncomfortable after that and went home shortly afterwards. 

Did I done a homophobia? Or perhaps a drunken   or   or maybe understandable and standard? 

In the long past, I was asked out by an older guy I knew. 

It freaked me out, and I've asked myself why.  I was embarassed that I might've acted in a way that gave him the impression I was gay (I didn't, except be totally oblivious to what I realized in that moment was flirting on past occasions), combined with teenage years where being called "gay" was the worst thing that could happen to you.

I am thankful there isn't the same stigma against various sexualities these days.  If it happened now, I wouldn't be freaked out.  Some people are gay and bi.  No big deal.  If someone male were attracted to me, that's cool.  It doesn't oblige me to act in any particular way.

[Duty]

Bumped into Jonny OP today and all was well - bought him a pack of Cherry Bakewell's as a birthday present (he told me it was his birthday last thurs) and we chatted away for a good long time. Perhaps my freaking out, detailed in the OP, was like a "shock" reaction to the newness - I now couldn't give two hoots if he thinks I'm "fairly attractive" - it's not like he tried to kiss me or anything. Anyway, good news and all that, Hazzah!