(August 5, 2015 at 2:26 pm)Pyrrho Wrote:(August 4, 2015 at 11:09 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I don't see how it would make a difference... at least to me, personally. Let's rewind to 6 years ago at a time when my now husband and I were about to get engaged. But before we did, lets say we had sex as some sort of little "test." Even if the sex wasn't great, I wouldn't dump someone I loved so much over something that we had our whole lives to improve on. That's what I just don't get about folks saying they have to "test drive" other people. But I guess it's just not my way of thinking.
So you are saying that sex is not very important to you. Just because you can "work on it" does not mean that it will actually get better.
I can certainly see waiting if sex is not that important to one. There is no need for a test drive if one does not care how a new car feels or handles.
Nope! No straw, please.
I meant only exactly what I said. Nothing more, nothing less.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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