(August 5, 2015 at 5:02 pm)Esquilax Wrote:(August 5, 2015 at 4:29 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: Does your penis have treads? That's interesting.
How else is it supposed to traverse uneven terrain?
Regarding the point you've been making these last few posts, for a second there I was about to disagree with you on certain aspects of it, before I realized the issue was with me, not with what you're saying. When it comes to sex things my mind is so open it's basically a flat plain upon which almost anything can happen, so at first I was just like "wait, why not just do the BDSM anyway, even if they're not into it, if it makes their partner happy?" because even if it's not a kink I personally have (not that BDSM isn't my kink because it totally is) I can still appreciate it on an anthropological level just by seeing what, specifically, about it turns on my partner. Even if I can find no arousing part of the act, it still has appeal as a curio, like fine art.
But not everyone is like me, in that respect, and I got that way through a pretty weird sexually formative period in my life. I can pretty much learn kinks, while other people can be stuck in theirs. With that in mind, I still can't imagine going into a sexual relationship with someone completely blind; even with my variable tastes I need to know what I'm getting into. Luckie and I had sex within like half an hour of being in the same physical space as one another, and that was great, but if it hadn't been then that would have been extremely useful information to have, and in either case it came on the back of countless long distance sexy times and extremely thorough accounts of where we were at, sexually. I can't imagine our first time in that hotel room going anywhere near as smoothly if I hadn't come in equipped with the knowledge of what turns her on and what doesn't.
Here's a hint: it's choking.
When it comes to lovin', listening rules. But Summer Queen is right: sometimes the listener is beguiled by sweet words that aren't supported by the act.
My best sex partners have been open not only with me, but with themselves. This is why when I'm single (as I am now) I don't look for the best tits or prettiest eyes -- I look for the bearing of confidence and self-approval. Nothing's sexier than a woman comfortable with herself.
