RE: Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?
August 5, 2015 at 11:15 pm
(This post was last modified: August 5, 2015 at 11:16 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(August 5, 2015 at 11:07 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote:(August 5, 2015 at 6:33 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Well it is possible to love someone very much without having had sex with them though. If I love someone very very much, to the point where I am about to commit myself and my life to him, and we decided to have sex right before we got engaged, I wouldn't leave him if the sex wasn't great (especially since such a thing can be improved, but that's another point) . I already love him at that point. Likewise, I wouldn't leave my husband if he, for whatever reason, was unable to have sex anymore. I don't really see the difference between the 2 scenarios.
Could you fall in love with a man who rides a wheelchair, incapable of sex at all? I mean, enough to devote yourself to him even though you already know he's wheelchair-bound?
I don't think I have that big a heart, myself; sexual compatibility is a part of any relationship I engage in. Perhaps that makes me shallow.
If we connected in every other way, I could fall in love with him. I don't think you're shallow. I can see how it may be too much baggage too early on for just anyone to be able to handle.
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