(January 12, 2016 at 8:45 am)Stimbo Wrote:(January 12, 2016 at 8:14 am)Aractus Wrote: Pool. Even IF she agreed to have sex with him, by him forcing her to do what she didn't want was still rape.
Goddamned idiot.
And I shall give you a story. About 6 years ago a female friend and I had been drinking. She tried it on, I said to her "you're drunk" and sent her home home in a cab that I paid for. That's what men do, they don't go and rape women who are vulnerable.
There have been times when my Sam - my own fiancée - came on to me and was all over me after a night with the girls; and I turned her down specifically because she was drunk and it would have been taking advantage of her. The morning after the first time, she told me she was surprised because she'd had guys in the past who did take advantage, and that she loved me all the more because it was another way in which I was different. Then we went off and reaffirmed our love, so we could both enjoy it properly.
Honestly, I've had sex with my girlfriend when we were both drunk/high, but we weren't intoxicated to the point of not knowing what we were doing, and none of us showed any signs of not wanting to have sex. There's nothing wrong with having sex while drunk/high, some people specifically take drugs to have sex after because of how it alters your body, but there's a difference between knowing when you can do it and when you can't.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you