(April 14, 2016 at 7:25 am)Losty Wrote:(April 14, 2016 at 1:46 am)pool the great Wrote: Listen Losty, it's not normal to think mean shit about random people you know nothing about.
You see a guy in a funny sweater and think, damn what a loser, well he is the CEO of a company Facebook is trying to buy, his mother died last year same day, the sweater was made by his mother as a gift for him. She died from cancer and he was holding her hand as she slowly drifted to a never ending sleep.
How do you feel now?
Judging people based on some preconceived notion is what shallow people do, and I know for a fact that you aren't shallow. To act nice with others and think mean shit about them is what hypocrites do. Don't be like them. Be true to yourself and others.
See here is where I am stuck.
But what would you have me change? I can't help the thoughts that pop into my mind. I don't want to have them or think they're funny but I don't know how I'm supposed to have control over that.
Would I have me be cruel in order to avoid hypocrisy? I don't think I can do that either. Being mean to someone is definitely not staying true to who I am. It would hurt them and that would hurt me.
So I don't know...
Lol!! It's almost as if you have a pathological need to think stuff like that. I still don't understand how people actually think it's normal. Either way as long as you don't actually act on those thought I guess you're a nicer person that 40% of the population. But I would still put in effort to atleast try and avoid those thoughts. Not only will it give you peace of mind it'll make you a better human being than what you are right now. Then EVERYBODY will like you and you will be president. Then you can give free cheetos to EVERYONE! But I'll love you regardless.