Think some of this can just be about plain ole chemistry. I'm petite in stature, and have been told I'm feminine, so 'alpha' types tend to be attracted to me. But, my fiance is somewhat of a nerd, too...I haven't really ever been attracted to mere outward hotness. Not really a fan of the terms alpha and beta, because they are so restrictive.
Now there is such a thing as female nature and male nature...men and women do have innate differences beyond just outward appearances, but not all women or men respond in the exact same way to different things that occur in their lives, simply because of their gender. Environment, culture, nature, etc all make us who we 'are,' IMO.
Now there is such a thing as female nature and male nature...men and women do have innate differences beyond just outward appearances, but not all women or men respond in the exact same way to different things that occur in their lives, simply because of their gender. Environment, culture, nature, etc all make us who we 'are,' IMO.