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Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
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Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
Based on personal experience and observation, it is quite easy to notice that men are on the constant pursue of women, mainly with the objective of having sex with them. The desire for a relationship may depend on several factors, such as falling in love with her, which can happen at first sight or after some time of friendship, or after certain age at which company is more desirable than lust. 

Nonetheless, for young men, such scenario of having a strong sexual desire, and not being able to easily satiate it, albeit temporaly, creates feelings of frustration, and even anger and resentment, which unfortunately have to be endured. And thus, men enter a vicious cycle, which makes them waste resources, time, and forces them to act into sometimes awkward and uncomfortable social situations, such as approaching women, which may lead into unfavorable situations. 

The option of prostitution is always available, which can be a curse in itself. Most men want to be desired the same way they desire women. Unfortunately nature decided to create women in a different a fashion. Prostitution has many shortcomings, like the possibility of being scammed or STD, the emptiness which one may feel after the act, or not finding a woman attractive enough. Using this service frequency can also become very expensive. 

Only few men are lucky enough to sleep with either highly attractive women, be it due to their looks, social circle, socio-economic status, etc., or with a woman they deem worthy of a relationship and capable of good sex. Now, these both scenarios do not satiate the desire of men permanently, but on a regular basis it keeps him satisfied, and the feelings of resentment and frustration disappear.  Still, the desire for different women will probably remain, although not as strong, as before.

Women know of such fact, either based on observation, experience, or instinct. And will use it as a weapon against man, mainly manipulation. Like the donkey that cases the carrot, man chases the woman who, might or might not, give him sex, which, will unlikely, fully please him, keeping him into the vicious cycle.

There is no solution to this dilemma, only ways to cope and keep the desire under control. Nonetheless, most men will still chase women, since the idea of putting one's sexuality aside is disagreeable. Time is limited, specially youth, and thus having as much sex as possible while feasible is something most men can not simply ignore, again, forcing them into this vicious cycle. 

Only time can end lust, in the fashion only death can end life.
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Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 22, 2022 at 5:18 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 22, 2022 at 2:34 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 22, 2022 at 7:16 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 22, 2022 at 8:16 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 22, 2022 at 8:16 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 22, 2022 at 10:04 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 11:51 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Anomalocaris - December 22, 2022 at 10:08 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 22, 2022 at 11:15 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 22, 2022 at 12:34 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 22, 2022 at 1:37 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Nay_Sayer - December 22, 2022 at 2:05 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 22, 2022 at 2:50 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 22, 2022 at 2:56 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 22, 2022 at 3:19 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by paulpablo - December 22, 2022 at 3:20 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 22, 2022 at 9:05 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 23, 2022 at 1:44 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 23, 2022 at 4:26 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Macoleco - December 23, 2022 at 8:19 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 23, 2022 at 8:54 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 9:51 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 22, 2022 at 3:45 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 22, 2022 at 9:20 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Fireball - December 22, 2022 at 11:05 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Fireball - December 23, 2022 at 12:50 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 23, 2022 at 1:22 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Rev. Rye - December 23, 2022 at 1:43 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Ranjr - December 23, 2022 at 2:39 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Rev. Rye - December 23, 2022 at 5:16 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Rev. Rye - December 23, 2022 at 6:07 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 6:48 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Fireball - December 23, 2022 at 9:18 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 12:14 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Angrboda - December 23, 2022 at 4:22 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 5:26 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 8:07 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 9:13 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 9:36 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 9:48 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 23, 2022 at 9:59 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 11:45 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 24, 2022 at 11:14 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 24, 2022 at 2:29 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 10:05 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 10:34 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 10:33 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 10:45 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 10:53 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 23, 2022 at 11:01 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 23, 2022 at 11:06 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 23, 2022 at 11:37 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by paulpablo - December 24, 2022 at 11:45 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 24, 2022 at 12:40 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by LinuxGal - December 24, 2022 at 1:32 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Rev. Rye - December 24, 2022 at 3:30 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 24, 2022 at 3:34 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 24, 2022 at 3:36 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 24, 2022 at 3:43 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 24, 2022 at 10:10 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Angrboda - December 24, 2022 at 7:29 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 24, 2022 at 8:43 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Fireball - December 24, 2022 at 10:31 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 25, 2022 at 12:03 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Angrboda - December 25, 2022 at 1:02 am
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 26, 2022 at 6:56 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 26, 2022 at 8:27 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Uberpod - December 26, 2022 at 9:09 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Belacqua - December 26, 2022 at 9:41 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Jehanne - December 26, 2022 at 9:43 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Objectivist - December 26, 2022 at 11:35 pm
RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men - by Foxaèr - January 24, 2023 at 7:38 pm

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