(December 29, 2015 at 12:33 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I just like to be realistic.
That's the thing, it's not always realistic. I'm not saying your critiques of yourself are or aren't on target, I don't know you near well enough to do so, and I don't have an A69 membership so I can't see any of the, ahem, creeper stuff The point being, oftentimes our self-critiques aren't rooted in reality, but rather a mentality that inhibits us from praising ourselves, for whatever reasons.
I know why I'm that way myself. I work to get around it, but ingrained programming is fucking hard to break.