Ex-theists are often like ex-smokers, sanctimonious and insufferable.

[Whateverist]

Each person should be held responsible for their own actions.  In some cases, they only have a small part to play in a story, but their small part should be acknowledged.  For good or ill.

But acknowledged to whom?  Who do they stand judged by and by what authority?  No one -including theists- owes me a god damned thing any more than I must answer to them for my non belief.  I don't wish to be in the inquisition business.