(August 5, 2015 at 9:32 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(August 5, 2015 at 9:08 pm)Lemonvariable72 Wrote: Cl I want to build something on what Esq is saying here. Sexual gratification is one of the major reasons that people cheat on their partners. It's because they haven't explore these aspects of themselves and they themselves may not know what they really want, sometimes not till eyars later. So you have to explore these things inn yourself and with your partner before you get married, else you have a sexually unsatisfactory marriage that will make most people cheat. So premarital sex is a good thing because it helps you grow as a individual and well, it feels fucking awesome.
Are there statistics saying that people who save sex for marriage cheat more? I may be wrong, but I'd imagine it to be the other way around.
Not directly, but there is an abundance of evidence demonstrating that the Conservative values that lead to saving yourself for marriage lead more infedility and higher divorce.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm
That link aptly shows that Christians of the sort that practice virginity pledges widely have the highest divorce rate. Much higher then that of atheists.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.