Thoughts on sexual services?

[Macoleco]

I am a 27 year old male virgin. Lately I have been thinking that I only get older, and that my time to enjoy sex while young is already starting to fade away. I would like to experience sex with beautiful women, and so far it has proven to be quite difficult to achieve. Constantly being exposed to pretty women, but not being able to have contact with any of them just makes the urges 

Thus, I am starting to consider he use of escorts more seriously, although I dont see myself doing it just yet. There are some variables to consider, though, from which I would like to listen your thoughts:

• Safety: I do not want to get involve in anything shady. I do not want to end up drugged and robbed. How could I approach such services?
  
• STDs: is condom enough, or should I consider other strategies such as requiring an STDs test before the act, checking her lips,etc.
  
• Quality of the service: I am willing to spend money on an attractive woman. Nonetheless, it seems most brothels or online services employ from ugly to regular women. How can I find highly attractive escorts?
  

Besides those specific questions, what is your take on prostitution? It used to be a remote idea to me, but as time passes, it seems to get closer to reality.

[Gwaithmir]

All I can say is that, if it weren't for prostitutes, I'd probably still be a virgin. 

[Fake Messiah]

In some countries it's really not a big deal. Like Germany and UK have it legalized.

[The Grand Nudger]

I wouldn't rate my sex life before 27 as the better part of it. You probably understand a little bit more what's involved in finding and being with the kind of person you want to be with than you did when you were younger, yeah? It becomes more and more true every year, I think. Chiseled out of stone yet? Workin on those social skills and graces? Spending alot of time where the girls you like are, developing the kinds of relationships you'd want? Whatever's involved. I mean, I guess the whole pitch of a sex worker is that you get the sex without all that trouble.

[Fake Messiah]

Also, what's up with this:

I would like to experience sex with beautiful women, and so far it has proven to be quite difficult to achieve.

What does "beautiful women" even mean? Don't everyday women turn you on? Especially if you are a virgin, why would you want to start with some "beauty"? It seems like you are setting your standards too high.

Start with the girl next door. Or maybe even with a first woman that finds you attractive, instead of dreaming about some Charlize Theron lookalike or whatever passes for beauty standards these days.

[HappySkeptic]

If you go the "professional" route, my guess is that you will find that 1) There is a missing emotional factor that makes it less satisfying than you hoped, and 2) By getting the whole virgin thing done with, you might both be more confident with regular women, and also more interested in that emotional factor.

Being needy for sex turns women off. You will never get a "beautiful woman" just because you want one - it must makes you look creepy. You might get one someday because you create an attachment, and she likes you (assuming you aren't ugly and poor).

[The Grand Nudger]

Or, just bingo bango, sex worker. I can't see the problem with it if all you're after is sex with a pretty girl - and lots of people don't have the time or inclination for relationship building. It's like asking whether a person should try to fix their own car or just hire a mechanic. IDK - whichever one would you enjoy more, I suppose?

[arewethereyet]

I am a 27 year old male virgin. Lately I have been thinking that I only get older, and that my time to enjoy sex while young is already starting to fade away. I would like to experience sex with beautiful women, and so far it has proven to be quite difficult to achieve. Constantly being exposed to pretty women, but not being able to have contact with any of them just makes the urges 

Thus, I am starting to consider he use of escorts more seriously, although I dont see myself doing it just yet. There are some variables to consider, though, from which I would like to listen your thoughts:

• Safety: I do not want to get involve in anything shady. I do not want to end up drugged and robbed. How could I approach such services?
  
• STDs: is condom enough, or should I consider other strategies such as requiring an STDs test before the act, checking her lips,etc.
  
• Quality of the service: I am willing to spend money on an attractive woman. Nonetheless, it seems most brothels or online services employ from ugly to regular women. How can I find highly attractive escorts?
  

Besides those specific questions, what is your take on prostitution? It used to be a remote idea to me, but as time passes, it seems to get closer to reality.

Sounds to me like you are looking for a business transaction.  You want to lose your virginity with a beautiful woman.  There's no mention of even a friendship.

I'd suggest you shop around for the services you are looking for.  Don't use some random woman just to be able to say you aren't a virgin any more.

[Fake Messiah]

And sometimes guys go with a ho to step down from beauty. Like the prostitute, Hugh Grant was with while he dated Elizabeth Hurley.



And even that was evidence for the existence of God as well as being a divine act itself (as anything can be to a religious person) so she explains:

‘I was just trying to pay a few bills that night,’ she tells me. ‘Lo and behold I got a celebrity. I’d agreed to go with him for $50, but ended up with more than ten thousand times that. God has a path for us all.’

Most of the money was spent on showy cars and a flashy lifestyle, but enough was invested wisely in property to allow her to put her two older daughters, Cheyenne, 21, and Brianna, 20, through college.

‘I have the most wonderful life now,’ she says. ‘I’ve got a nice new home with three bedrooms and four bathrooms. It’s very pretty and I have a beautiful garden with flowers. There’s no pool, but I do have a picket fence. I thank the Lord every day.’

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[Macoleco]

All I can say is that, if it weren't for prostitutes, I'd probably still be a virgin. 

And what was your experience?