(August 26, 2015 at 11:48 am)Rhythm Wrote: What's unfair about it? It;s not as though anyones trying to pin some malice on good ole mom and dad. That they created an environment strongly correlated with maladaptive sexual behaviors is simply a demonstrable fact. The road to perdition is paved with good intent.
It's like lining a crib with razor blades, and then saying "well, I didn't -mean- for the baby to get cut". Okay, fictitious pyschotic person, maybe you're dense, but when you line something with razor blades....things have a tendency to get cut. No one is blaming mommy and daddy, we are recognizing that mommy and daddy contributed.
Whether intentional or not, saying the actions of someone else (in this case the parent's) are the cause of someone molesting their sisters, is extremely incriminating.
I find it foolish and rash and unfair to throw around such accusations without at least being that person's psychologist. I find this to be pretty basic principle to have, but if y'all disagree, then so be it.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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