(November 19, 2010 at 1:14 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: It's all about control, really...at least for me - pain doesn't do much to me unless the endorphins are already zipping along and then it's like throwing a little chili pepper in chocolate.
There's relaxation and pleasure to be found in surrendering complete control to someone and being able to trust that they'll make it good for you both. It's such a weird dynamic - even as the helpless one you have a certain amount of power over the person who's supposedly in command.
I'd be afraid that the woman would tie me up and then get distracted by something else.
Theres an episode in the old bbc serial the new statesman where alan b'stard ties a girl to a bed and then goes shopping.
This would be my fear.
You can fix ignorance, you can't fix stupid.
Tinkety Tonk and down with the Nazis.
