Loving and forgiving your enemies

[Edwardo Piet]

No. The first thing - that's what happens. The latter - that's just what sanctimonious people say in order to appear more noble, and/or to cover the fact that they haven't dealt with the issue at all - they're just going through the motions, because they were indoctrinated since childhood into believing, that it's what they're supposed to do.

I disagree. Not only do I genuinely forgive people in my proverbial heart as opposed to merely practical reasons... but I often am able to avoid blaming them in a non-practical way in the first place. I can hold them responsible for their actions practically, without remotely resenting them or blaming them in an interpersonal-hatred kind of way at all. Even if they're a total cunt in their behavior.