(December 16, 2015 at 10:45 pm)Stimbo Wrote:(December 16, 2015 at 9:43 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I know erections are involuntary, silly.
But I didn't know you could get them even when you're not aroused (unless it's morning wood or something). I mean, I'm assuming a guy is not aroused when he's being assaulted and forced against his will.
I really wish I was free to post that piece I spoke of earlier, about the nineteen male rape victims' experiences. Basically, and without being rude, your assumption is dead wrong. Erection and orgasm are basically physiological and, as you say, involuntary. At the risk of getting too NSFW, try to imagine someone forcing you to get aroused against your will, so you can be used as a sex toy for their pleasure. In the words of one of the nineteen safe enough for me to quote:
Quote:I felt powerless and ashamed. I told some people but they kind of laughed it off. I think if gender roles were reversed it would’ve been taken more seriously.
I know that now, I'm not trying to deny. Just saying I was surprised to learn of this, that's all. I hope you didn't take offense. I'm not a guy, so I didn't know.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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