(December 17, 2015 at 5:01 pm)Brian37 Wrote:(December 17, 2015 at 4:33 pm)God of Mr. Hanky Wrote: Hey, CL, I'm not judging - if you want to play butt-stuffing games with a guy who's into that and he gives his consent, then that's fine. Just make sure he's ok with that before you tie him down so that he can really enjoy being helpless in your hands, and make sure you communicate while having your fun so that you don't go too hard and hurt him. Some ladies like to do this with each other, or with men too.
There's really nothing wrong which anyone does in sex, so long as consent is mutual and risks are intelligently minimized.
Exactly, every type of sex is risky especially without a condom. But yea, if you have the consent and you know the risks then anything you don't like that others do is merely a matter of taste. The only two things that matter are consent and knowing the risks and how to minimize those risks.
You both (especially Brian) are acting as though I somehow downplayed or denied rape just because I was surprised to know men can get erections during it. Seriously, that's all it was - I was merely surprised to learn this could happen to men. I never said it isn't rape if he's aroused. I never said inserting objects into people's butts against their will isn't rape.
I must say this is the most bizarre case of strawmanning I've ever seen not coming from a troll lol.
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