(December 17, 2015 at 5:36 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(December 17, 2015 at 5:01 pm)Brian37 Wrote: Exactly, every type of sex is risky especially without a condom. But yea, if you have the consent and you know the risks then anything you don't like that others do is merely a matter of taste. The only two things that matter are consent and knowing the risks and how to minimize those risks.
You both (especially Brian) are acting as though I somehow downplayed or denied rape just because I was surprised to know men can get erections during it. Seriously, that's all it was - I was merely surprised to learn this could happen to men. I never said it isn't rape if he's aroused. I never said inserting objects into people's butts against their will isn't rape.
I must say this is the most bizarre case of strawmanning I've ever seen not coming from a troll lol.
No, not at all. We just don't think you or most laypeople understand the biological actions during an act of rape and molestation which is why you were "surprised" that it could happen to men. We just told you and now you know. So again, instead of fighting us trying to claim we put words in your head when all we did was state reality, accept it and learn. Nobody is accusing you of anything.