(December 17, 2015 at 6:06 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(December 17, 2015 at 5:59 pm)Brian37 Wrote: No, not at all. We just don't think you or most laypeople understand the biological actions during an act of rape and molestation which is why you were "surprised" that it could happen to men. We just told you and now you know. So again, instead of fighting us trying to claim we put words in your head when all we did was state reality, accept it and learn. Nobody is accusing you of anything.
I don't think you understand. I was "surprised" men could get erections during rape to the point where they could be raped vaginally.
My cousin, who is a guy, was raped by a male neighbor when he was 11. And I'm not a "moron" as you called it. I know what rape/molestation is and what it entails. I just didn't realize it was possible for men to get erections during it.
I was just surprised arousal could happen. That's all I was surprised about lol.
EDIT TO ADD: I also don't get why being a lay person should have anything to do with whether or not a person understands what rape is.
Now you do know, but as surprised as you say you are it makes me sad more people are not taught this. Now you do know. So learn from it.
