(December 22, 2015 at 9:05 pm)Thena323 Wrote: The comments were a doozy. Particularly the ones ranting about how unfair it is to be average or less-than-average
looking...as if there's an actual Someone, who's not distributing all the "hotness" in an equitable manner.
The really sad thing about this is I know several people who are "less than average" at best who get laid ALL THE FUCKING TIME.
If you want a good example of someone who is famous (who I don't know), look at Daniel Craig. That man is a goofy looking motherfucker when you just look at his face. What he *is* is ripped, and he has presence.
But the people I personally know, they dress well (they dress for their weight and height, they can have a dad bod, don't have to be fit), they're really polite, they're out to give everyone, not just women, a good time, they're good people, they're generous, they try to be helpful, etc. Basically, they act like super decent human beings. And generally all of them have one or two very interesting things about themselves that they can say differentiates them from the crowd.
And you know what? That makes them super attractive.
It took me a long time to learn to dress for my figure and in such a way that made me unique among my friend set. Please understand I'm not fishing for compliments when I say that when all the make up and shit is off, I'm on the average side - that's just how I perceive/judge myself as, and it is what it is. But you know what? Somehow I manage to get laid on the regular, despite not being the skinny mini that the media feels women should be. I put that down entirely to personality - and my outward "style" is an extension of that.
All it would take is for one of these fuckers to grow up, recognize that other people are humans as well, and develop some fucking personality for them to start seeing interest. That's literally my criteria for fucking a guy: does he have enough personality for us to be able to talk before and after fucking? Trust me when I say personality can totally overwhelm an average to below-average appearance. Just as long as you're clean and have all your shots, you know?
But I suspect it's not just immaturity with people who really think these things. I suspect it's deep seated empathy and anti-social problems as well. They're just externalizing it this way.
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