Quote: My advice would be to be really honest with the lady and see what she thinks.
[I know this thread has been inactive for many months but saw no reason to start another thread, seeing as this is nothing more than an update]
Ok, two months ago I had been in contact with her. Now it turns out she is now with someone else (turns out she's with someone who's a bit of a horrible git). Before I knew of this character, I truly believed she was with someone good and I could just slip away quietly and leave'em to it. Now I sent her a little facebook message and as you suggested, I came clean. I told her everything, the situation, my feelings on it all, the lot! I did it in the kindest way that I could. I even had my sis read it, she thought it was lovely. So I sent it.
Guess what happened next? Well.....it's been too months now.........and she hasn't lifted the fucking block!
Only recently have I become aware of her situation. She's depressed, she's lost her mum a short while back, she's with a cunt, she drinks alot, has no free time because of her commitments and now based on my sisters reports, she has even deleted everything on her FB account. She's going down hill fast!
I guess by me informing her that I think it's best that I moved off and slip away, I guess that was just another bad thing for her to deal with. At this moment in time, it is almost impossible to contact her. So I guess that's it.
Though, there is still two last possible ways to contact her. Though I've decided just to let her be.
Just thought I'd put this little update on here. Don't think there'll be any more updates. Who'd a thought it could all crash and burn so quickly, with one little message? That's actually why I haven't been on here for a while. I've changed my facebook settings so that she can't get back into contact with me. It's ended and I'm making sure it stays that way. Real shame that it had to end this way. From my point of view, it's like she doesn't exist anymore.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
