(January 17, 2016 at 1:25 am)Heat Wrote:(January 17, 2016 at 12:48 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: No one is saying a man isn't allowed to be sexually attracted to a pretty girl. Just don't be a creep by staring and being disrespectful.It's all relative, CL. That's the point I was trying to make earlier. It's relative to what a girl is wearing, which might sound creepy but it's the honest truth.
If you see a man wearing a speedo out in public, are you going to immediately scold yourself and think it disrespectful to stare?
Actually, yeah.
I was born in a big city where I spent the first 7 years of my life. As a little kid we'd walk everywhere... to the store, to the park, to the beach... we didn't have a car and you could get anywhere you needed to on foot.
My mom taught me from very early on not to stare at the homeless folks laying in the streets, or the disabled people who walked (or rolled) by, or any other type of person who just happened to stand out for whatever reason. It's just common human decency. It doesn't matter if it's a hot guy in a speedo or a mentally handy capped person acting strangely. Staring is rude.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
