(January 17, 2016 at 4:04 pm)Heat Wrote:(January 17, 2016 at 3:43 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I don't see how expressing yourself with "sexy" clothing is different from expressing yourself with any other type of clothing. You're being a bit biased, perhaps because you personally don't like having to deal with the temptation of gawking.Yes, and why do you join a nudist colony? To get away from the societal norms of how you should dress, and the amount of clothing you should wear for it to be appropriate in public out of respect for the other people. Therefore someone dressing outside of the social norm. should know she will get looked at.
As for going around naked, if they are in a nudist community, I don't see a problem with it at all (otherwise it would be a crime). If you look into nudist communities, it's mostly about the hippie, liberating lifestyle than it is about sex and tempting each other.
I've explained this many times you continue to ignore me, and say you simply "Don't understand". Sexy clothing is defined by what's ATTRACTIVE, so why are you dressing attractive while criticizing others for showing you attraction? It's silly! "Sexy clothes" are not worn in PUBLIC for solely PRIVATE gain. It defeats the whole purpose of 'public'. If you are wearing skimpy clothes, clothes that will inevitably grab men's attention, don't hypocritically say it has nothing to do with other people. IF IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OTHERS GO WEAR IT IN PRIVATE IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL THAT GOOD.
Seriously, replace the word "sexy" with "attractive" clothing, and then tell me that you are wearing "attractive clothing" and weren't wanting other people to be attracted. This claim is beyond ridiculous and hypocritical..
Like myself and a handful of other women here have repeatedly explained to you, that is not the case. You refuse to believe us, so there's really not much else we can say.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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