Our server costs ~$56 per month to run. Please consider donating or becoming a Patron to help keep the site running. Help us gain new members by following us on Twitter and liking our page on Facebook!
Current time: August 15, 2025, 10:49 am

Thread Rating:
  • 0 Vote(s) - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Advice on not being sarcastic plus other things
#26
RE: Advice on not being sarcastic plus other things
(April 7, 2016 at 3:02 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: OMG Becca, I'm truly sorry. Can you produce some sort of proof, such as the decision from the court, that you weren't in the wrong?

Eventually, I can, but it will take a lot of time and money that I don't have. Add to that, the judge and my lawyer are both dead now, so it's even tougher.

Quote:Also, write a pleading to the court to have that removed from your records since you were found not guilty and the cop was fired.

I plan on it, but, again, a lot of time and money will have to go into it.

Quote:If your employer can get those things, would they be willing to re-hire you since it was an obvious mistake on the courts behalf to not seal these records?

The records weren't sealed when they were supposed to be, and the verdict was filed wrongly, so it's going to be hard to prove. They will consider hiring me back, but I have an entire appeal process I'm going through, including letters of reference from three people who aren't my family. Luckily, I have at least ten friends/old co-workers/professors, etc. helping me out with that. Regardless, I probably won't be able to get hired back because they'll need to hire someone to replace me in the time it takes to get all of it done. The biggest silver lining I'm considering is clearing my name with the amazing people I was working with, and if I get my job back, I'll consider myself lucky.

Quote:At the very least, that should be expunged, but given as you were found not guilty, there shouldn't be anything to expunge.

Unfortunately, the incident happened in the state of NY, and there is no expunging available; the best I can hope for is to get the record sealed.

Quote:Also, if this happened when you were a juvenille, then you may have recourse against the court for not sealing those records anyway.

I was 28 when it happened...

Thanks for all of your suggestions and support Heart

I didn't want to derail from Losty's stuff, honestly. I just thought the story was applicable to the topic.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
Reply



Messages In This Thread
RE: Advice on not being sarcastic plus other things - by rexbeccarox - April 7, 2016 at 3:30 pm

Possibly Related Threads...
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  The Really Bad Advice Thread BrianSoddingBoru4 24 2106 March 4, 2025 at 8:37 am
Last Post: Nanny
  [Serious] A thought I had about some people's view on some things medical and other things ShinyCrystals 15 1930 October 22, 2023 at 1:31 pm
Last Post: ShinyCrystals
  One of these things is not like the other ones Angrboda 1 636 December 6, 2021 at 12:55 pm
Last Post: BrianSoddingBoru4
  Fun phrases from other countries/cultures. Gawdzilla Sama 3 870 August 3, 2020 at 1:33 pm
Last Post: Gawdzilla Sama
  Bannings, Reports, and Other Actions? no one 21 4465 June 11, 2020 at 7:27 am
Last Post: Gawdzilla Sama
  Other forums you belong to... arewethereyet 9 1656 June 8, 2020 at 7:50 am
Last Post: Gwaithmir
  Other forums just aren't the same Violet 18 2961 May 3, 2020 at 6:51 pm
Last Post: Violet
  Advice about patience Macoleco 4 929 March 26, 2020 at 5:24 pm
Last Post: arewethereyet
Music The best advice someone gave you. onlinebiker 65 9605 April 14, 2019 at 8:33 pm
Last Post: chimp3
  The WORST Advice Someone Ever Gave You BrianSoddingBoru4 11 2030 April 14, 2019 at 2:12 pm
Last Post: Fireball



Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)