RE: How To Know When To Drop A Subject
April 22, 2016 at 9:04 pm
(This post was last modified: April 22, 2016 at 9:05 pm by Regina.)
(April 22, 2016 at 6:43 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: I think the key is to realize that conversations do not need a formal 'ending' to just be over.
This exactly, and I feel it's especially relevent over texts and online talk as well
I had this one friend who got offended with me because I sometimes I wouldn't text him back. It's not like it was shade, it was just that we'd been talking and the conversation had got to a point where it tailed off so I didn't feel a need to reply.
I find it's easy in person to tell when someone is interested in what you're talking about though. Conversations are a mutual exchange. They don't necessarily need to be talking back but there are non-verbal cues like eye contact, clearly turning to face you, nodding is another common one. People nod and change up their facial expressions a lot when they're really listening, they'll appear to react with body and facial language even if they don't verbally say anything.
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"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie
"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie