(May 31, 2016 at 10:34 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:(May 31, 2016 at 6:32 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: First of all, I was joking.
Second, there's no need to knock on virgins or to say most people will generally prefer a non virgin over a virgin. People are more than their virginity or lack thereof. You're only a virgin until the first time you have sex. If you get in a relationship with someone who losses their virginity to you, this doesn't mean they're going to suck in bed every time until their second boyfriend or something. I lost my virginity to my husband at 24 years old, and I can assure you I do NOT "lie there like a plank of wood."
How would you possibly know? Nobody thinks they suck in bed or their spouse sucks in bed. Like anything else, you need a large sample size to actually know anything. Simply saying 'oh I can assure you' means nothing.
Technically I don't know that I "suck", since I haven't had a string of men to judge me on my performance. But I do know I put effort and passion into it and that I try my best to make it great for my partner... and that definitely does not involve lying there like a plank of wood. The notion that people who have only had sex with one person just lie there or automatically suck, is silly.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
