What's the point in dating single mothers?

[rexbeccarox]

That's interesting, because my favorite single mom (), who isn't exactly swimming in the cash, lives three hours away, and despite my lack of transportation and money, makes it my way without asking me for a dime.

Oh, and MAN! $20??? Holy fuck, that's a scam that could really put you in the red!  

       If I knew her a bit better I would not have of minded. I only just met her four days prior days to her asking from me. If you ask me that's very rude to ask someone for money that soon.

Thing is, dude, you called it a "scam". You asked her on a date, and her answer, according to you(!), was that she would love to, but she'd need help paying for a babysitter. IMO, that's pretty damned straightforward. Scams aren't exactly known for being straightforward. The problem here is that you used a pretty heavy word to describe a pretty light situation, which only puts forth more bigotry against single parents, which you don't seem to mind doing. In your case, though, I see that this woman dodged a big bullet when you stopped responding to her.

These are people. They're not monsters; probably not even criminals most of the time, but you're willing to make them look that way for your own bias.