To circumcise or not to circumcise?

[Homeless Nutter]

Well then go ahead. Think I'm a horrible person then. Think I'm a horrible mother.[...]

I doubt this will help - especially that I'm guessing you've had me on ignore for months - but I don't think you're a horrible person. Or a horrible mother. It's just that... Goddamit, how do you have internet in the 1950's?
Seriously - are you a Stepford wife? Do you just do what you're told is ok to do - by your family, your priests, your husband?

Because if it is a boy my husband and I have decided already.[...]

So what? Did you already pay the hit-man and can't call him off, until your future son's foreskin is buried in the woods somewhere?

Here's an idea - do the circumcision thing, but not immediately - give it a few weeks. The kid will still be too young to remember anything, but you and your husband will have developed an emotional bond with him, rather than with the naive idea of him you have now. There's a reason most male circumcisions - religious or otherwise, are performed shortly after birth.

If at this point you're still able to go through with mutilating your child's penis - oh, well - do whatever you want, Eva Braun - I guess the kid's f*cked either way...