Love

[Thomas Kelly252525]

I feel like there's a language barrier. I struggle to understand what you're trying to say.

When I say attraction is subjective I mean I may find someone quite endearing to look at even though someone else thinks they're ugly and another person thinks they're just ok.

I reject your percentages of ugly and beautiful because I think it's a silly notion.

I agree that it's only rational to have goodwill towards people regardless of whether they're ugly or beautiful. People should marry whomever they love, but if they love the person I doubt they consider them to be ugly just because you or I might.

Losty,

By saying ...another person thinks they're just ok, do you think that means that they don't think they are beautiful or ugly but in reality they may be beautiful or ugly ?

If you reject the percentages of ugly and beautiful because you think it's a silly notion, will you explain why you think that ?

You showing your agreement in part of what you said is valued and even though we appear to disagree in other parts, this discussion is valued.

Are you thinking a person may be pleased by the sight of another person and not think they're ugly and in reality they are not ugly but some people may think they are ugly ?

I added a question later by editing to a post I sent to you.  Did you see it ?  You may look at it below.

Are you thinking that some people won't be pleased by a mostly beautiful/handsome person ?