I've been in a gay bar once in my life, so I haven't been exposed to much "gay music". It was a lesbian dive bar in South Metro ATL back in 1998. I do live in my city's main gay neighborhood, but all I've noticed is two young guys blasting Matt & Kim out their Volkswagen Golf.
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan