"Creepy?" No.
You'd have to define creepy.
"Fucked Up?" Yes.
As to the question of what happens when someone tries to tell me about their bullshit 'nicely?' I usually tell them, equally nicely, that there is no evidence that any of their bullshit ever happened. It is their reaction to that statement which then determines how the conversation proceeds.
Usually, they don't react all that well.
You'd have to define creepy.
"Fucked Up?" Yes.
As to the question of what happens when someone tries to tell me about their bullshit 'nicely?' I usually tell them, equally nicely, that there is no evidence that any of their bullshit ever happened. It is their reaction to that statement which then determines how the conversation proceeds.
Usually, they don't react all that well.