RE: I need a therapist
August 22, 2016 at 4:28 pm
(This post was last modified: August 22, 2016 at 4:32 pm by The Grand Nudger.)
(August 22, 2016 at 3:27 pm)Won2blv Wrote: I am so confused about what to do in life. I don't know if I should just end things with my wife. I don't know if I should continue with my religion just for the friends and the community. I don't know if I should try to go back to school and try to become a lawyer which has always been a dream of mine. I am 29 with a HS diploma and nothing else. My business is successful enough for a comfortable life. I am scared still that I am wrong about not believing in my religion anymore. And the list goes on. I feel like the inevitable is that I am just going to leave my wife and start over but I am scared that I'll be aimless and lonely. I know that there is plenty I can do in life to widen out and make new friends but I am so scared that I am making the wrong decision.
Does anyone recommend a good tool for finding a therapist? Anybody know of specific treatments that they recommend for me? Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Internet rando here, weighing in. Not about your religion...because that;s unimportant compared to the wifey. Are you not making each other happy anymore? Have you both given it your level best and exhausted all the things that -might- make it better? Does she even -know- that you're going through this? Be a lawyer regardless, do that shit, go back to school - hell doing that might actually improve your state of mind and thus the state of your relationship.
If....-if-...it all goes south, bro...plenty of us have started over again and again. I've worn so many hats that people sometimes don't even believe it's possible (hell, looking back, I wonder how I pulled it off...it's not like I'm all that good at anything in particular). You're gonna be aight, either way. It'll hurt like hell, and you might find yourself intimately acquainted with a fella named jack and his cousin jim......but there's light at the end of the tunnel.
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