How many people would you vouch for?

[Thumpalumpacus]

This

I can safely tell them anything in confidence

And this
If I needed them, they would do everything in their power to help me

Is what makes me provide an honest answer to the question. There's no such person, nor do I think there could be. I don't think anyone could ever fulfill the last part, that's insane. So either rob gotta change his OP or I think the lot of you are lying when you claim there are people who fit the bill in that way.

... or you have to fall in love, or become a parent.

Or you could just quit trying to think that your experience is the only possible experience, and maybe -- perhaps? -- learn from others?

You're right, that ain't gonna happen. Never mind.