Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[emjay]

And one other thing is you've got to stop trying to have the last word. I know it's hard for you, perhaps compulsive for you, but this is one situation where you've got to forego the notion of closure... because each time you have the last word it's just another post of attention on her and it could go on ad infinitum. Closure will/may come at a different time in a different way, but not like this.